i'm a believer

I'm not self-obsessed, i'm just confident and that's not wrong. I live life to the fullest and enjoy every moment i spend in company of others. I'm Me: i act immature, eat when i'm bored, yell when i'm angry, and never regret something that once made me happy. I believe in true love, and i believe in making my dreams come true, because i'm a believer.

Three stupid stages 0f Life _

Three stupid stages 0f Life _
Teenage - Have time and energy but n0 m0ney.
W0rking Age - Have m0ney and energy but n0 time.
0ld Age - Have time and m0ney but n0 energy.

- Website

Now, remember this moment.

Make a list. Cross it off. Build a fort. Read a magazine. Turn off the TV. Make some coffee. Smell the flowers. Take a day off. Take two days off. Take a week off. Go outside. Buy a plane ticket. Leave the country. Fall in love. Wear something new. Wear nothing. Camp a mountain. Swim with the fish. Paint a picture. Paint yourself. Listen to new music. Listen to old music. Play music. Take a walk. Make a new friend. Reconnect with old friends. Write people letters. Send the letters. Tell the truth. Grow your own fruit. Look at the stars. Breathe in. Breathe out.



Now, remember this moment.

some of the best moments in life:

falling in love
laughing until your stomach hurts
finding lots of mails from your friends on vacation
driving to a nice place
listening your favorite song on the radio
laying in bed and hearing the rain
getting out of the shower and feeling your warm towel
passing your final exam
receiving a call from someone you haven't seen in years
having a good conversation
finding money in jeans you didn't wear since last year
laughing about yourself
calls at midnight that last hours
laughing for no reason at all
hearing accoientally that someone is saying something nice about you
waking up, and knowing that you can sleep for more hours
listening to that song that reminds you of that 'special person'
being part of a team
your first kiss
making new friends
feeling butterflies on your stomach every time you see that 'person'
spending quality time with your buddies
watching all your loved ones being happy
using the sweater of that special person, with their perfume still on it
having someone to say 'i love u' to
that someone says to you 'i love you'
a friend comes when you call, your best friend comes, even though you don't call...

^^

I'm SKINNY, so I MUST be anorexic.
I'm EMO, so I MUST cut my wrists.
I'm BLACK so I MUST carry a gun.
I'm BLONDE, so I MUST be a ditz.
I'm JAMAICAN so I MUST smoke weed.
I'm HAITIAN so I MUST eat cat.
I'm JEWISH, so I MUST be greedy.
I'm GAY, so I MUST have AIDS.
I'm a LESBIAN OR BISEXUAL, so I MUST have a sex-tape.
I'm ARAB, so I MUST be a terrorist.
I SPEAK MY MIND, so I MUST be a b**ch.
I'm a CHRISTIAN, so I MUST think gay people should go to hell.
I'm RELIGIOUS, so I MUST shove my beliefs down your throat.
I'm ATHEIST so I MUST hate the world.
I don't have a RELIGION, so I MUST be evil and have no morals.
I'm REPUBLICAN, so I MUST not care about poor people.
I'm DEMOCRAT, so I MUST not believe in being responsible.
I am LIBERAL, so I MUST be gay.
I'm SOUTHERN, so I MUST be white trash.
I TAKE ANTI-DEPRESSANTS, so I MUST be crazy
I'm a GUY, so I MUST only want to get into your pants.
I'm IRISH, so I MUST have a bad drinking problem.
I'm INDIAN, so I MUST own a convenience store.
I'm a CHEERLEADER, so I MUST be a whore.
I'm a DANCER, So I must be stupid, stuck up, and a whore.
I like WEARING SKIRTS, so I MUST be a slut.
I'm a PUNK, so I MUST do drugs.
I'm RICH, so I MUST be a conceited snob.
I WEAR BLACK, so I MUST be a goth or emo.
I FELL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN, so I MUST be a home-wrecking whore.
I'm a TEENAGE MOM, so I MUST be an irresponsible slut..
I'm POLISH, so I MUST wear my socks with my sandals.
I'm ITALIAN, so I must have a "big one".
I'm EGYPTIAN, so I must be a TERRORIST!
I HAVE STRAIGHT A'S, so I MUST have no social life.
I DYE MY HAIR, so I MUST be looking for attention.
I DRESS IN UNUSUAL WAYS so I MUST be looking for attention.
I'm INTO THEATER & ART, so I MUST be a homosexual.
I'm a VEGETARIAN, so I MUST be a crazy political activist.
I HAVE A BUNCH OF GUY FRIENDS, so I MUST be f***ing them all.
I HAVE A BUNCH OF GIRLS WHO ARE FRIENDS, so I MUST be a player.<<[I Don't Think That Counts If You're A Girl. =P]
I have BOOBS, so I MUST be a hoe.
I'm COLOMBIAN, so I MUST be a drug dealer.
I WEAR WHAT I WANT, so I MUST be a poser.
I'm RUSSIAN, so I MUST be cool and thats how Russians roll.
I'm GERMAN, so I must be a Nazi.
I hang out with GAYS, so I must be GAY TOO.
I'm BRAZILIAN, so I MUST have a BIG BUTT.
I'm PUERTO RICAN, so I MUST look good and be conceited.
I'm SALVADORIAN, so I MUST be in MS 13.
I'm POLISH, so I MUST be greedy.
I'm NATIVE, so I MUST be a drunk.
I'm HAWAIIAN so I MUST be lazy.
I'm PERUVIAN, so I MUST like llamas.
Im a STONER so I MUST be going in the wrong direction.
Im STRAIGHT EDGE so I must be violent.
I'm SINGLE so I MUST be ugly.
I'm a SKATER so I MUST do weed and steal stuff
I'm a PUNK so I must only wear black and date only other punks
I'm ASIAN so I must be a NERD that does HOMEWORK 24/7.
I'm CHRISTIAN so I MUST hate homosexuals.
I'm MIXED so I MUST be screwed up.
I'm MUSLIM so I MUST be a terrorist.
I'm in BAND AT SCHOOL, so I MUST be a geek.
I'm BLACK so I MUST believe JESUS WUZ A BROTHA.
I'm MORMON so I MUST be perfect.
I'm WHITE and have black friends so I MUST think I'm black.
I'm GOTH so I MUST worship the devil.
I'm SPANISH, so I MUST be dirty.
I'm NOT LIKE EVERYONE ELSE, so I MUST be a loser.
I'm YOUNG, so I MUST be naive.
I'm MEXICAN, so I MUST have hopped the border.
I GOT A CAR FOR MY BIRTHDAY, so I MUST be a spoiled brat.
I'm a GUY CHEERLEADER, so I MUST be gay.
I'm a PREP, so I MUST be rich.

- from a friend

Important List..

The most destructive habit......................Worry

The greatest Joy...............................Giving

The greatest loss................Loss of self-respect

The most satisfying work...............Helping others

The ugliest personality trait.............Selfishness

The most endangered species.........Dedicated leaders

Our greatest natural resource...............Our youth

The greatest "shot in the arm"..........Encouragement

The greatest problem to overcome.................Fear

The most effective sleeping pill........Peace of mind

The most crippling failure disease............Excuses

The most powerful force in life..................Love

The most dangerous pariah..................A gossiper

The world's most incredible computer........The brain

The worst thing to be without................... Hope

The deadliest weapon.......................The tongue

The two most power-filled words..............."I Can"

The greatest asset..............................Faith

The most worthless emotion..................Self-pity

The most beautiful attire......................SMILE!

The most prized possession................Integrity!

The most powerful channel of communication.....Prayer

The most contagious spirit.................Enthusiasm

The most important thing in life..................GOD

Take chances. Tell the truth. Date someone totally wrong for you. Say no. Spend all your cash! Fall in love. Get to know someone random. Be random. Say I love you. Sing out loud. Laugh at a stupid joke. Cry. Get revenge. Apologize. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Tell the ***hole what you feel. Let someone know what they're missing. Laugh til your stomach hurts. LIVE LIFE!



- peace, love & music: my life(: 

I'm not sorry at all...

I'm sorry I don't have glamorous hair, perfect skin, the straightest teeth, or the best body. I'm sorry I don't doll myself up all the time and that I wear those baggy shirts around the house. I'm sorry that I like to eat junk food once in a while and I'm sorry that I'm not a fitness guru. I'm sorry I'm not like some of the other girls. But the funniest thing of all, is that I'm not sorry at all.


:]
Me.. 

Excellent Life Plan ..

1st: Make peace with your past so that it doesn't
screw up the present.

2nd: what other people think of you is none of your
business.
3rd: Time heals almost everything. Give it time.

4th: The person responsible for your happiness is
you yourself.

5th: Don't compare your life with others and don't
judge them. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.

6th: Stop thinking too much, its good not to know
all the answers.

From one stranger to another,

I hope you're alright. I hope you're doing more than just barely surviving
because you deserve better than that. I want you to know that I care about you.
Not for any special reason, but rather just because you're human. I want you to
know that I hope everything works out. Above all, I just want you to have a good
night and sleep well. I want all of this not for any special reason, but rather
because there isn't a reason not to.

Sincerely,
A stranger

Things I've Realized...

I've come to realize that my legs....
are way more flexible then they appear

I've come to realize that this weekend...
will be filled with laughter and great times

I've come to realize that when i'm driving...
I want to slap the bejeezus out of other drivers

I've come to realize that i need...
God

I've come to realize that I have lost...
respect for losers

I've come to realize that I hate it when...
you trust someone with all your heart and it ends up getting broken.

I've come to realize that if I'm drunk...
I'll have a conversation with anyone

I've come to realize that money...
isn't as important as love and happiness

I've come to realize that certain people...
didn't deserve me

I've come to realize that I'll always be..
me no matter what.

I've come to realize that my best friends...
are the greatest gift I could ever have in life.

I've come to realize that my cell phone is..
my lifeline

I've come to realize that when I wake up in the morning...
it is a blessing and someone else somewhere didn't have the same grace

I've come to realize that last night before i went to sleep...
i miss the days when life seemed easier.

I've come to realize that right now I am thinking about...
not forgetting about the good times and wanting to relive them.

I've come to realize that my mom...
is one of the best people i know

I've come to realize that when I get on facebook & myspace...
it's a good way to waste my time

I've come to realize that I really want...
contentment

I've come to realize that if I died today...
i must have fulfilled my purpose.


:],
me 

Every girl needs a man...

Every girl needs a man. You know, the kind that’ll treat you right. The kind that has enough respect for you & is willing to change, just to be with you. The kind that searches for you with all his heart & that can be trusted in a room full of beautiful girls. Every girl needs a man who won’t cheat on her because he knows she’s got all that he wants & needs already. He won’t mind calling you early in the morning just to say good morning or late at night to say good night; maybe even sing you a good morning song & tell you a bedtime story or talk to you until you fall asleep. This guy will be the kind that’ll do anything for you, even if it’s to just go to the store & buy you your favorite kind of candy. He would defend & fight for you & wouldn’t bail on you for his friends when you need him most. The kind that won’t leave you lonely & wondering; the one that calls you surprisingly, even if he’s out with his friend, to just tell you that he loves & misses you a lot. The kind that isn’t afraid to smile to his friends every time you’re around & tell them, “She’s the one”. The kind that appreciates you for the things you do for him, even if they’re little. The ones that actually thank you for the little love notes you leave him, waits for you when you’re falling behind, & opens doors for you. Every girl needs a man who will take you out on dates once in awhile & buys you flowers just because it’s a Wednesday. The kind of guy that notices your hair when you just got it cut or done beautifully for him. He would remind you that he loves you & that he’s happy to be with you, just in case you forget. The kind that just doesn’t want kisses & hugs, but to actually be loved & to love. You deserve a guy that will call you beautiful instead of hot, who kisses your forehead when you’re down, tells you to be strong & to not cry, & when you do cry, he’d cry with you when times are hard. The kind that will go through thick & thin with & for you. The kind that just loves you for who you are & not for who you aren’t and loves you because you’re his favorite girl in the whole wide world.




_:]
Vey_

=(

"Just because her eyes are dry,
Doesn’t mean she’s never cried.
When she tells you, “I’m the strong one”
She’s hoping you’ll be stronger.
If she says she doesn’t care what they say about her,
It only means she wants someone who does.
If she doesn’t tell you everything,
She’s afraid you’ll be like all the rest.
When she looks you in the eye,
And says, “I hate you”
All she really wants is to know you don’t.
Just cause she looks well put together,
Doesn’t mean she isn’t ready to fall apart.
So when she’s down,
And you’re asking, “Why”
Remember, just cause her eyes are dry,
Doesn’t mean she’s never cried."

Life is too short

Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can’t change. Love deeply, and forgive quickly. Take chances, give everything, and have NO regrets. Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad, smile when you’re sad, love what you got, and always remember what you had. Always forgive, but *never* forget. Learn from your mistakes, but never regret. People change, and things go wrong, but always remember….life goes on <3

yes!

Yes...
I'm a girl
I push doors that clearly say PULL
I laugh harder when I try to explain why I'm laughing.
I walk into a room and [forget] why I was there
I count on my fingers in math class
I try to accomplish things with time still on the microwave
I wish for Love every 11:11,
I lie sometimes to hide the pain
I say its a long story when it's really not
I fall in love too hard too fast
all I want is to kiss you in the rain
-YES-I'M-A-GIRL-
but thats more than it seems...

i'm

I'm the girl who doesn't care what people think of her. Who lives her life to the max, even when everyone else says she can't do it. I'm the girl who would rather wear sweats and a tshirt then get all dressed up. I'm the girl who loves with all her heart, mind, and soul. I'm the girl who ain't givin up...ever

SMILE!! =))

Smile. even when you're hurting

Smile. even when you're lied to

Smile. even when someone doesn't care

Smile. even if the world comes crashing down

Smile. even if you're hated



Because...



someone out there is hurting more than you are

someone out there has been lied to more times than you have

someone out there is more unloved than you are

someone out there doesn't even have a world, no family, no friends, no home

someone out there is hated by many more than you are

The Secrets............ The Power

The Secrets............ The Power....... .......
* The First Secret: The power of Love.

Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet.

* The Second Secret: The power of Respect.

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself? " To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, "What do I respect about them?"

* The Third Secret: The power of Giving.

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of you can take.

* The Fourth Secret: The power of Friendship.

To find true love you must first find a true friend. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

* The Fifth Secret: The power of Touch.

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

* The Sixth Secret: The power of Letting go.

If you love something, let it be free. Even in a loving relationship, people need their space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.

* The Seventh Secret: The power of Communication
. .
To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know; that you love and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say, "I love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise and acknowledge someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word ... it could be the last time you see them.

* The Eighth Secret: The power of Commitment.
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong, loving one.

* The Ninth Secret: The power of Passion.

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone. It comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.

* The Tenth Secret: The power of Trust.
You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Trust yourself, trust others and trust the world. It is the foundation for LOVE.

Always believe in God

Always believe in God because there are some questions that cannot be answered by Google

Thx..

God, I thank you, for giving me this life, this experience of joy, sadness, pain, there is nothing I could ask for more, and if my time comes, I won't regret, cause I know in my heart that you are with me.

Copy this and repost it somewhere.

When you carry the Bible, Satan gets a headache. When you open it, he collapses. When he sees you reading it, he faints. When he sees that you are living what you read, he flees.
When you are about to add this to your favourites,
he will try and discourage you.... I
just defeated him!! Copy this and repost it somewhere.

the 45 lessons life taught me..

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written.

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:




1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone...

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends, family and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first pay cheque.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear fancy clothes. Don't save it for a special occasion, today is special.

22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative '' dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

don't tell me

don't tell me that i dont understand what pain is...dont think that i haven't hurt before...dont think i havent hurt so much all i could do was cry, and i didnt want to live anymore. dont think that my heart hasnt been broken, and shattered into a million pieces, because it has. ive sat motionless not knowing what to do with my life, just because i lost you, just because i felt so empty without you, just because i didnt want to let you go and have to face life without your hand in mine. so dont tell me i didnt hurt when you broke my world, dont tell me that you hurt the same way i did, coz u didnt, you didnt even come close...

Only once in your life..

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.

- Bob Marley

This is what i would do..

This is what i would do : ► the laughter, ▌▌ the memories, █▌ the pain, ◄◄ the happiness

Run.
When you can't run no more, just walk.
When you can't walk no more, just stand.
When you can't stand no more, just crawl.
When you can't crawl no more, just lay down.
When you can't lay down no more, just try to survive.

Just never give up.

_Me









I laugh to remember that life is for having fun

I read to remember that education is good in the long run

I smile to remember that some one may be falling in love with me

I dance to remember that a free spirit is the best way to be free

I work to remember that sometimes it's not going to be easy and that's a good thing

I talk to remember that everyone should have a distinct personality

I love because that's the way I think that I should be

I think because thats how I get to that place that is for me

I give advice because I want to make the world a better place

And I listen because it helps people feel like the world is safe

So laugh, read, smile and dance to see where life will take you. Work, talk, love and think to do the best that you can do. Give advice and listen just to help everybody else. But never put anyone else before yourself.
 


_Me 

I am me, and only me

I am me, and only me. Take me as I am or watch me as I go. I'll be the one to love you the most, but trust me...I won't be the one to stick around forever for you to realize it. I dance in the rain, and cry during chick flicks. I am a girl, I am myself, there is no changing it. Accept me, or don't. I won't change for you, or anyone else. I'm a lover, not a fighter...but I will always fight for what I love and believe in. I wish, I hope, I dream. I am a girl, living this thing we call life.

- me

a girl

I'm a girl who has been through a lot
but I'm thankful for what I got
God made me a girl of strength to fight
every battle put in front of my sight.

Im Just A Girl...

Im Just A Girl.

who wants what she can't have
who dreams for too much
who falls for the bad boys
who kisses and tells
who cries too often
who eats&&eats when broken up with
who longs to be loved
who doesn't see the beauty in herself that everyone else sees
who laughs at things that happened yesterday
who hides her feelings
who cares what people think of her
who believes in others more than herself
who is looking for her place in this world

Tragedy happens..

Tragedy happens
What are you gonna do?
give up?
quit?
no..
I realize now that when your heart gets broken you gotta fight like hell and make sure your still alive
Cause you ARE and that pain you feel, thats life
The confusion and fear?
That's there to remind you that somewhere out there,
There's something BETTER & that something is worth fighting for

Your perfect little girl yelled at you last night.
Your perfect little girl cries herself to sleep.
Your perfect little girl was broken by a boy.
Your perfect little girl hates you.
Your perfect little girl has given up on life.
Your perfect little girl wants to run away.
Your perfect little girl is very unhappy.
Your perfect little girl is on the edge of breaking down.
Your perfect little girl keeps a lot of secrets.
Your perfect little girl deals with everything on her own.
Your perfect little girl had to grow up to fast.
Your perfect little girl has become such a disgrace.
Your perfect little girl....isn't so perfect anymore.

As you grow up,
you learn the difference
between falling in love
and holding hands.
kissing doesn't always
mean something,
promises can be broken
as quickly as they were made,
and sometimes,
goodbyes really are forever...